Restaurant Displeasure

Written by lonephoto on January 18th, 2010

Listen closely restaurants, and please, please stop your usual discriminatory practices. While I realize not all restaurants fall into this category, I have encountered this in far too many establishments, so those that are doing a great job already, kudos to you – keep up the good work!

When teenagers walk in, please do not dismiss us as other-worldly creatures without respect, dignity, and manners. We, too, are humans. We can dine in elegant, candle-lit restaurants. We may not know what everything on your fancy menu is, so when we ask, answer politely – not like we are stupid. You, too, once did not know what that sauce was covering fine pieces of meat. We came to enjoy an evening, hoping to enjoy your food, ambiance, and service. We dressed up and we even made reservations! Obviously, we are serious about thoroughly enjoying our night – you could help us in that quest. Oh yeah, did I mention we are going to leave you a 20% tip just like the other people in the restaurant? But no, you do not think so. You stereotype teenagers and so we are left with very unfortunate service. Your manners are different, quieter, attempting to conceal the fact that you would rather not be serving us. You tried very hard to seem friendly, but we saw through your act. I know how you would treat a table with adults, I have dined with my parents. Is it too much to expect that same service with my girlfriend? I do not think so, but apparently we do not seem worth it. Your service leaves me not wanting to patronize your restaurant and absolutely discouraging others from dining there, as well. In fact, your service was so condescending, I would rather dress up and go to a fast food restaurant. At least when we get up to the counter, they will not say “Hey, kids!”. By the way, we are not kids. Would you greet a table by saying, “Hey, adults!”? We may not be able to drink, yet, but we are able to partake in all the adult privileges, same as you. For all purposes relating to your restaurant, the only difference between the service you should offer us and a table full of adults is that you take away the wine glasses and the wine menu. Other than that, I expect the same service, just as you would at my age. It is rather unfortunate because I enjoyed your food, the restaurant had a very romantic feeling, and the host was quite friendly, but because your waiter cast us off as typical teenagers and treated us differently than other guests, I will not be coming back. On top of the fact that I will never be coming back, when people ask for recommendations, I will strongly discourage them from dining at your restaurant, Cafe Amore in Seattle, WA. Please, next time young adults enter your restaurant, Cafe Amore, treat them with the same respect and service you would other guests.

 

2 Comments so far ↓

  1. Mima says:

    You go Elliott. Take no prisoners!

  2. Kathy Beebe says:

    A good reminder for ALL adults to treat younger adults with respect!!

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